Lil Brother & Lil Sister

Since baby Ajwa dalam kandungan lagi, Shu sudah mula pupuk Saqlain supaya sayangkan his little Sis. Keep telling him that inside Mama's tummy has a baby and the baby is his sister. Also told him that he will always be my baby too. 

Kalau dah ngadap tab, memang tak kisahkan ape pun,
tapi sedar plak bila nak snap pic her sister

Actually ketika mengandung second baby, Shu ada satu perasaan dilemma dan juga ragu-ragu. Macam2 soalan bermain dalam fikiran ni. Bolehkah Shu bagi tumpuan yang sama pada Saqlain? Bolehkah Shu sayang Saqlain macam mana Shu sayang dia tika waktu itu? Sayang yang tiada sempadannya. dan macam2 lagi la. Bukannye unwelcome baby dalam perut tu, cuma risau Saqlain akan rasa tidak disayangi lepas baby dalam perut tu keluar. 

Pantang nampak kita nak snap Ajwa, mesti datang menempel

Sebelum baby Ajwa keluar, Saqlain memang excited tengok baby. Kalau keluar jalan2, terserempak ngan baby mesti Saqlain suka. So, Shu fikir memang takkan ada masalah bila baby Ajwa keluar nanti.

Love to see when they get together

Tapi... bila Baby Ajwa keluar, lain pulak perangainye. Nampak sangat Saqlain cemburu. Instead of cium, Saqlain menggigit. Instead of peluk, Saqlain lay down on the baby. Pukul dan hampir2 nak memijak pun pernah... we realize that, dan memang tak berani nak tinggalkan baby Ajwa alone with him. Bila mood Saqlain nak bermanja-manja dengan kita, sedang kita mendukung baby Ajwa, Saqlain akan arah alihkan baby Ajwa dari pangkuan kita. Adehhh.... serba salah dibuatnya. Nak marahpun tak boleh. It's natural behaviour bila kid sambut ahli keluarga baru. Kene pandai2 pujuk dan sentiasa pujuk sayangkkan adik.

I can say the 1st 3 months was critical for us. Tapi kitaorang dalam rumah ni, tak kira Shu, Mr. Hubby and their grandmother sentiasa cakap we love both of them equally.

Tengok ni.. menempel lagi!!!
Shu nak amik aksi Ajwa tido menonggek

Since baby Ajwa pandai meniarap, Shu observe perangai Saqlain mulai berubah. Menggeram @ pukul / gigit / cubaan memijak tu masih ada. Tapi... bukan disebabkan jealous, tapi tindakan itu lebih kepada geram sebab his sister did not give any response when he tried to play or make fun to her. Bila tak de response, mulalah kene cepuk si cinonet sorang tuh.

As a mother, definitely my attention will goes to my little baby girl, as I need to carry her most of the time breastfeed her. But when she's sleeping, I'll try my best to fulfill my time with my boy, play with him, teach and do revision, kiss and hug him and never stop telling him that he always gonna be my buah hati.

Watching cartoon together

As time goes by, sifat tangan cepat tu sudah makin sangat berkurang apabila Ajwa semakin berkemampuan bergerak sendiri serta memberikan respond to her brother. Now, they spend more time together doing their activities.

As myself, from the start, I'll let them to be together and observe them. Just let Saqlain to do whatever he wants as long as does not harm his lil sister. I don't know what more to describe when seeing them playing together. I feel GREAT & WONDERFUL. Thanks to Allah for giving me this feeling :)

Saqlain suka main sembur2 perut Ajwa. Then Ajwa mesti gelak suker